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Because monogamy lowers the chances that our genes will survive, men are not, by nature, monogamous creatures.
We choose monogamy because we deem that it’s more beneficial to have love, stability, and a nuclear family than to have lots of children running around with our eyes.
It is entirely based on physical attraction, which we feel instantly with the release of dopamine, serotonin, and testosterone.
This is why men can know if they would sleep with you in less than five seconds. I think it’s largely based on societal reinforcement.
His intense feelings for his girlfriend may lessen his desires to look elsewhere for sex.
But once those intense feelings of chemistry go away (as they usually do after 18 to 36 months – just long enough to conceive and raise a young child), his attraction will still spike every time he sees an attractive woman, in some form or another.
So Tiger sleeps with a waitress in a Denny’s parking lot and he loses a half billion dollars, his wife, his kids, and his golf mojo. So even if we establish that men are driven by sex, it’s far from the whole story, as evidenced by the 50 million married men in the United States. As long as he treats you well and doesn’t take action on his desires, you’ve got a good man whose desire for you is stronger than his real sexual impulse to be with someone else. It meant that, no, I don’t have to worry about that attractive busty blonde at the party, because she doesn’t mean any more to him than the tall, willowy brunette with the short skirt.
Somehow, I don’t think he considered that with his pants around his ankles. I have to say, this was a major growing up point for me, when I read Manslations by Jeff Mac, and looked at the evidence, and realised that, yes indeed, most men are on some level sexually attracted to most attractive women. Other attractive women are a fact of life, might as well get used to it.
Because they don’t rationally calculate the value of their losses. These are perfectly normal men, but they are also exceptions. It’s far better to understand and accept these qualities in men than to shame them, insult them, or tell them that they’re wrong for being this way.But make no mistake, monogamy is a choice, not a natural state.Anyway, in my estimation, the male sex drive has nothing to do with kindness or personality or compatibility.Because they’re so important that they don’t think the rules apply to them.Because they travel a lot and are frequently exposed to temptation.